When Lyra came over to shoot photos, I gave her some practical advice.  "Just make me look good."  I told her.  You see, the girls are so photogenic, they'll turn out fine no matter what she shoots.  Phil has dozens and dozens of hunting photos of himself, but I have only the occasional posed portrait, or the child-shot camping photo of me in mom jeans with nary a blow dryer in sight.  I tried to be jovial and casually pleasant looking for the shoot, but this might be the best - "ha ha ha, isn't cutting cake fun?"

I think this is a photo of the mom Grace wants.